Frank Black and the Catholics-Hermaphroditos- Commodore-2002-03?
Last Catholics tour, encore song, the whole band in perfect time. Sweaty as all hell, and Frank Black looking like one step away from a heart attack belting out the tune. Magic
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New Pornographers- Jackie, Dressed in Cobras. Commodore- about 03 Twin Cinema tour.
Dan Bejar who does Lead vocals on the track comes out beer in hand sauntering to the stage at the beginning and at the exact moment of the vocals starting. it's like a switch was flipped and he not only singing, he was the song. The moment the song was over, He picks up his beer and exit stage right, and the show continues. Pure showmanship, and he killed the song.
As others have said, you go to a show for more than just hearing the tunes.