Spoken like a true 'core cat - kudos!
I've noticed - years ago - there's 2 ways to go here… Stay fit, live the lifestyle and be the lifestyle, and work it to your advantage, or; party, eat shit, get fat, and "pretend" that you're all that and then some through "geographical association" (ie: the concept that one must have an "element of hardcore'ness" to them due to their simply living here) wearing oversized bike jerseys/ski wear to cover their moobs and gunts and various other not-so-correlated body parts, discussing their "rad lines" and "sick drops" (either season) while chugging beers and eating doritos.
The corollary to this is the bintzes and 'tards that come up here decked out in their west-side purchased uber-hyper-technical gear with GPS mapping apps and heart-rate monitors that wear such drivel while standing around the local starbucks sucking on the [intentionally] most expensive frappa-miata-cino-mocha-dairy-free-coconut-infused-latte-belgian-chocolate-fat-free-gluten-free-non-GMO-americana-dark-roast beverage off the menu…and it also has to be the one that takes the most time to prepare, as this allows for more "stand around and look at my high-tech athletic wear" time.
I'm not bitter. Just honest.
Just gotta find the balance.
I work 2 jobs, turn 35 next, sometimes ill go underground and chase hoes 3 nights in a week, other weeks when the snow is good/dirt is good i wont go out for more than 2 beers for a week. Still ride 4-5 days a week in summer, less in winter due to work commitments mainly.
I do totally agree with your second point. The amount of people at the backcountry gate in brand new arcteryx kits who can barely put skins on and think a lap of corona is a big day out is laughable. Im sure some of the local enduro races are hilarious too. I remember seeing a bunch of dudes on s-works enduro level bikes, on the 7 summits, rocking goggles for the descent on 35 degree day.