This voice has to be heard too:
I just moved (a year ago ish) from butfuck nowhere to Calgary. We wound up buying a duplex that allows me to commute in less than 20 minutes in traffic, and about 5 without. When my wife pops, I can go home for lunch with her and the tot, and be home for 2 extra hours every day that I wouldn't have been otherwise.
Mountainbikes are sweet and all, but that time is some I'll never get back and it's a priority right now - I might have to become a lycra wearing roadie for a bit or something, because I miss 2 wheels, but man, I've never had a short commute and I love it.
On the flipside to this,living out of the lower mainland has little to do with access to trails and more to do with lifestyle. We don't all work in an office and hang out in martini bars at night. Some of us want a little room with fresh air to breath,to have a yard,garden and animals and most importantly,the peace of being able to let our kids ride their bikes and explore in saftey and without constant supervision.
What works for me may not work for you,and that's OK. We don't need to be convinced that one is better than the other (although one is),rather this is a discussion about people's experience of living out of town.
Sure I've poked fun a bit,but if you're thinking about trying it,rent a place for a year and see how it goes.