I think a part of the problem when these issues come up for discussion is the picture that popular movies and TV shows has painted of the second world war. The stereotypes of the evil Nazi sadistic fanatic solider and the all American, honourable, brave allied solider have become so ingrained in our psyche that it is hard to separate that image from reality.
Maybe having served in the Canadian Army for 11 years gives me a slightly different insight? I don't know - I just can't see war - any war - through the rose coloured glasses of any justification.
The reality of soldiers in all wars is that the soldiers on both sides of any conflict will have more in common with each other than they do with the "leaders" that have put them into that war in the first place.
In WW2 - both the allied and the axis armies had an equal representation of honourable warriors, sadistic crazies and frightened kids. If you really look into the non-popularized history of WW2 you will begin to find accounts of allied soldiers committing the same type of atrocities as axis soldiers (with the exception of the Holcaust - that was truly depraved). Did you know - there were internment camps in Canada, the US and Aus for Japanese, Germans and Italians? Many families of Japanese descent in BC lost everything and were sent to camps.
Any nations military is a microcosm of that nations society, and at times of war when recruitment standards are dropped, lots of crazies make it in. The saying "The victor writes the history" is very true - and with WW2 we are living it.
So, ask yourself - is war really necessary? Is standing up and saying that war is a waste disrespectful of veterans? I would argue the opposite - and if you actually talk to some veterans, they would probably agree. The biggest sign of respect you can pay a vet or a serving solider is doing what you can to ensure war stops. The first step in that is getting a good grip on history and the base motivations of mankind.
My apologies for some of my more angry posts - when you lose a friend to "war" - especially when all he was doing was trying to get one of those damn submarines back to Canada - and when every time there is a Canadian mission the chances that someone who is a friend is on that mission is very high - you tend to take it a bit personally. I'd rather not have anymore of my friends die thanks - I'll pay a bit more for gas for my truck if that's what it takes.