One more little story… just for you farmer.
I took my girlfriend to see the Calgary Philharmonic this weekend, we stayed in a nice hotel and ate at a couple nice restaurants. We enjoyed fine cocktails, and had a lovely visit with Premier Redford. I wore my CK suit, a nice pressed white shirt, and an expensive watch. We went shoe shopping the next day, and I dropped 300 bones on a pair of dress boots that work nicely with one of my outfits, she dropped close to the same on a pair of work heels.
In a month we're heading out quadding, camping, and fishing. In between now and then, we'll babysit for friends, probably do some shopping, watch a movie or 3, eat at a couple dive bars, eat at a trendy restaurant for her birthday, and maybe host a dinner party. Seeing a trend here? I consider myself to be a pretty good man, but by your definition, I can't be because I went shoe shopping with my girlfriend and enjoyed an orchestra (where, by the way, we got to hear a Stradivarius. What a phenomenal experience!)
Be yourself and let other people be themselves. Most of us learned that simple lesson from picture books when we were 5, maybe it's about time you learned it too.