I'm really sorry for you, Ross.
A colleague of mine was told a similar life expectancy, she completely changed her diet and developped a grim determination of staying alive. She won. It's been quite a few years now. See her on Thursday and can talk to her if you want.
Remember….just because you were told a number which frame of reference is based on experience and statistics, it does not have to mean that you will not be able to see your grandchildren play, Ross.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your girlfriend and your family.
Consider yourself hugged.
"You don't learn from experience. You learn from reflecting on the experience."
- Kristen Ulmer