Grab a pair of Orchid BMX shoes, they're made for riding, they're not absurdly sticky like the 5.10's so you can actually reposition your foot while riding and they don't look lame…
i've had 3 orchid shoes, from 3ride.com
they're great shoes.
however there are cons.
-shoes do not offer ankle protection
-shoes are not really impact absorbing, they hurt the toes.
another thing to look out for is, not wearing them as a casual shoe. no matter how hard the compound is, they will become bald if they are worn casually.(im sure that's not a problem for the ladies)
i recently purchased the five.ten nathan rennie shoes. they offer great ankle protection opposed to Orchid/skateshoes. Also, i find the sole ALOT more stickier, and the shoe to be overall more impact absorbant.