2-3 years? Wow. 2-3 months is about the most I've got out of a set. In fact my front wheel lasted 2 weeks in Whistler last season.
I've never been a rim smasher before carbon came along, and since I've stopped using carbon wheels my DT's are still round [HTML_REMOVED] in one piece.
I ride a 160mm bike, that gets used for everything - trail riding, racing enduro [HTML_REMOVED] also DH.
My hit list includes; Easton, Enve, Derby, LB [HTML_REMOVED] Nextie.
Carbon wheels seriously don't work for me, and I'm not even convinced by the supposed benefits of being much stiffer. A nice aluminium wheelset rides better IMO.
I gave my wife my last warranty set of wheels. This happened yesterday funnily enough.
I agree that maybe expecting carbon rims to last 3+ years is a bit optimistic. But I also think your situation is insane. You're a wheel masher of the highest order. Something about your style just doesn't suit carbon. I've also heard similar stories from hardtail guys.
There's nothing better than an Orangina after cheating death with Digger.