And no, I don't make "everyone look bad". I represent myself, not every cyclist out there when I'm riding my bike, just like I don't represent every driver out there when I'm driving my car, every dog owner when I'm walking my dog, every hiker while I'm hiking…peoples bullshit generalizations are their own problem.
yes you do represent yourself, but simply by being recognizable as part of a readily identifiable group you also represent the group - cyclists. to outsiders, even though you are an individual within a group your behaviours reflect on the group and the behaviours of the group reflect on you.
while people's generalizations about an identifiable group may be bullshit, as long as they exist they do affect you.
- I don't think the fact that one is a minority requires one to accommodate the majorities prejudices. I prefer to counter with facts. See KenN's quote for the facts that you could use when debating this issue with the car-centric majority.
- I can't believe that getting around by bike is a political act. To me it's just a way to get around. People are free to politicize things all they want, but that doesn't mean everyone needs to accommodate it.
if your behaviours support the generalizations or prejudices of the majority, then yes, you need to consider your behaviours. have you ever listened to a bunch of people who are prejudiced against cyclists and especially commuters because of the poor riding behaviours of a few? they lump all cyclists into the same lot, so that's why the issue issue is politicized. simply by being on a bicycle, you are part of a problem - that's political. while i agree with you that it shouldn't be that way, i'm also not blind to the reality that it's more than just a way to get around. your perception of things doesn't necessarilty reflect everyone else's perception of things.
We don't know what our limits are, so to start something with the idea of being limited actually ends up limiting us.
Ellen Langer