Heavens sakes.
When my youngest was born my wife was the only one that could do everything that kept him alive for the first year.
She would encourage me to go on riding trips whenever the gang had one coming up. Deep down I knew she was banking credit for when the groms were big enough to be left alone.
Now that has turned around. She gets to get away more now which is awesome but I have to keep the amount of 'debt' I'm in so I don't get too much FOMO when she says she wants more Me (Her) Time.
I'm still given lots of time to do stuff I want to do in comparison to some friends of mine.
I really think the key is adjusting your perspectives.
Obviously this is easier said than done.
July 16, 2022, 1:09 p.m. - Karl Fitzpatrick
Heavens sakes. When my youngest was born my wife was the only one that could do everything that kept him alive for the first year. She would encourage me to go on riding trips whenever the gang had one coming up. Deep down I knew she was banking credit for when the groms were big enough to be left alone. Now that has turned around. She gets to get away more now which is awesome but I have to keep the amount of 'debt' I'm in so I don't get too much FOMO when she says she wants more Me (Her) Time. I'm still given lots of time to do stuff I want to do in comparison to some friends of mine. I really think the key is adjusting your perspectives. Obviously this is easier said than done.